Wednesday, November 29, 2017

WHY I LOVE TRAIN JOURNEYS (CVIII)






I got the lower side berth. I placed my backpack at a comfortable place and took deep breaths. I caught the train just on time. I looked around hastily. It is my habit to check the people around me when I am travelling alone. 

Two girls  were sitting on one berth with their laptops and opposite to them a guy was watching some animated movie on his laptop. Another middle aged man was reading magazine sitting beside him. I settled down and the attendant came with a water bottle. After a while a 25 year old guy came to share my berth. His was upper side berth.

I memorised my earlier college days and train journeys when I used to travel from Pune to Delhi and many a times in non-AC sleeper class. At that time the 28 hours journey was covered at drop of an eyelid. I met people playing musical instruments, singing songs, debating, discussing politics and law. In one journey I had met few wrestlers from Kashmir who took care of me like a child and in another I met struggling actors, and the journey used to end listening to their stories.

However, things have changed now. I have changed now. Earlier I used to talk to strangers as if I knew them since beginning. But now I think a lot before initiating a conversation. Probably now I want to spend maximum time with myself. The best time is to have lone time. And what better than a train where no one knows me. Book, camera and view outside with food coming every now and then, I was delighted. 



The girl with the laptop was wearing a purple colour T-shirt and was continuously working and fidgeting in tension. It seemed that she was working on some office project and while I was enjoying my journey I wondered that all our life we keep running behind something which is inside us- our own happiness.  





A train journey is never complete without a book. I was reading and they switched off the lights. I was  curious as to what would happen next in the book, waiting for the sun rays to enter soon. The train stopped for few seconds at Surat station and though I could not click any pictures but Surat station has some amazing and meaningful graffiti. It was full of colours.  




The next morning when the sun was at its peak and the Western Ghats had started and the cows were gazing on open lands, I saw a boy waving at our train. Probably that was his daily routine to wave at all the trains. I knew he could not see me but I waved him back. I remembered a line I read in the book:
"The world follows its own course. Each possesses his own thoughts, each treads his own path. It is with everyone. The world follows its own course."

I could feel and think more when I am travelling. I was hoping that the journey never ended. I kept sitting near the window with sun rays touching my face, with book in my hand, with headphones on listening to my music, sometimes looking outside the window watching the passing rivers and the mountains in Western Ghats. It is true that a journey never ends.





Tuesday, August 22, 2017

TRAVEL: WITH MONEY (CVII)


Disclaimer: Read the full article to arrive at any conclusion.

"Do I love my job? 
No.
But does it afford me the ability to go on lavish vacations and buy anything I want?
Also no. "

I pondered a lot thinking about the title of this article and I could not think of any appropriate one. I am a pro traveller and I can't imagine my life without travelling. But recently I came across many articles usually emphasising on travelling by quitting one's job, by stating that you do not need money to travel. I would say, that it is a very optimistic approach to encourage travelling but in my opinion it is quite impractical. Yes! There are people who travel without any money, but what they do in turn is hitch hike, ask locals to give them a place to stay and cook them a food. Humanity exists and that is why they exist. I do not see any problem in that also till the time they get the help and they are happy about it. But what bothers me is when they ask for money with a promise to return it, which they never do and then claim that they travel without any money and their life is totally sorted. I have many traveller friends who have made travelling their jobs and they are quite happy about it. In the end one needs to work to survive- mentally and physically. 

During my solo travels I have come across many travellers and have found many travellers on social media also. It is always good to talk to travellers as they have lot of hidden stories with them. But amongst them few asked money from me stating one or the other very emotional and genuine reason- example: one needed money for his sister who is travelling abroad and his net banking is blocked. To few I had to say no (it was very difficult and uncomfortable for me and that ultimately ruined the friendship) and to others I fell for their "genuine" reasons, owing to my gullible nature at that time. That somehow saved the friendship for that period but ultimately it was ruined as that money was never returned. I felt a sense of being used, I felt foolish. For me money was never the issue, what bothered me was the broken trust. 

As rightly said by Robert Kiyosaki- "Money is not the goal. Money has no value. The value comes from the dreams money helps achieve."

I realised value of money when I was admitted in hospital.

"The importance of money flows from it being a link between the present and the future."

It is true that money is not everything. What is important is to be productive which ultimately leads to making money. And more money is also not a solution as there is no definition of "more". What is important is to have a content life. 

Some pictures from my solo trips:

Narkanda, Himachal - May 2015

Tosh, Himachal - December 2016

Jibhi, Himachal - June 2017
Arambol, Goa - December 2015
Kasol, Himachal- November 2015





Sunday, July 30, 2017

JIBHI- AN UNSPOILED PLACE IN HIMACHAL (CVI)

23rd June -27th June 2017


Reaching home from office at 8.30 pm, convincing Dad, booking tickets at 9.30, packing by 10.00 and in bus by 11.00. I love sudden plans and that sudden plan made me find Jibhi- an unspoiled place in Himachal. 



With every new journey I evolve a little, with every new journey I find a little new me. And I know that travelling solves everything for me. It was a long weekend when  half of Delhi was going to Himachal but I was lucky enough to find one seat for me in a Volvo bus. Tired from the hectic day in office, I immediately slept in bus and with such an unplanned trip and no place to stay I started googling for places to stay in Jibhi. After 6-7 unsuccessful attempts I came across Mr Sandeep who runs Jibhi Camps & Cottages. Denying any vacant space initially, when I told him that I was travelling solo he ensured to arrange a place for me in his cottages. I had a sigh of relief.


View from my room- Jibhi Camps & Cottages



HOW TO REACH

Delhi- Aut (Bus)
Aut to Banjar (Cab or Bus)
Banjar- Jibhi (Cab or Bus)



THE JOURNEY AND THE EXPERIENCES

I meet so many helpful people during my solo journeys. But then there are certain people who could not do anything for you but are always ready to give free advises. So as I proposed my idea of going to Jibhi solo, a "friend" of mine messaged me on 'social media' that I should be careful as this is "India". Probably he does not know that India is unsafe because of negativity the guys like him possess. It was not an advise, it was an attempt to create fear in mind. However, I continued my journey and like all other journeys I met beautiful people on this journey as well- Sonali, Sandeep and Rahul.

SONALI

A 22 year old solo traveller, I met Sonali in bus from Delhi to Aut. It started with a simple 'Hi' and ended with hugs and goodbyes. With Sonali, this solo trip turned into a duo trip where we both were together but still we had our own space. Seeing Sonali I thought that I started travelling very late, but then present is the right time to start anything and I am happy that at least I am doing it.


Me and Sonali- Jibhi Waterfall



SANDEEP

Well I have less words to describe Sandeep. He is the owner of Jibhi Camps & Cottages and he came as a rescue for me when I had no place to stay in Jibhi. The long chats over beer and tea, listening his stories, discussing economy and philosophy, the jokes and his morning teas, he clearly considers that 'The guest is equivalent to God'.  The one line which Sandeep said very casually but I could not forget it is that, " It is easy to earn money. But it is difficult to digest it. And that is why money is the cause of all diseases in the society."




RAHUL

Before Jibhi Rahul was my facebook acquaintance whom I used to follow to get to know about different travelling places. So it was Rahul's facebook post which made me decide to travel to Jibhi. But I had no clue that I would get a chance to meet him on this trip. So all this happened because of long weekend traffic jam in Manali, when Rahul decided to find a peaceful place and ended up in Jibhi. We got in touch on messenger and he was staying just beside Jibhi Camps. We had endless chats but still there is so much left to talk about. I hope I will be meeting him soon again to talk more about places and our journeys. Indeed it is a small world. 



PLACES TO SEE

SEROLSAR LAKE TREK

From Jibhi to Jalori Pass via Sojha village- in Cab or bus (I took a cab and shared it with three more people who were staying in the camp)
A 6-7 kms trek from Jalori Pass to Sarehul Lake


The trek to Serolsar Lake



The trek to Serolsar Lake

It was beautiful 6 kms trek, very serene and calm. While I was walking there were so many thoughts running through my mind. But there were times when my mind was totally free. There were no thoughts. That was the time when I found myself totally elated. That was the time when there was complete silence and I could hear myself in that silence.



It was moderate but a long trek. I took a maggie and tea break in between. It was picturesque. 

Way to Serolsar Lake


Way to Serolsar Lake


Way to Serolsar Lake

I finally reached Serolsar Lake. I sat on a stone, closed my eyes and in that silence the cooing of Himalyan crows touched my ears. Meanwhile the lake was playing hide and seek amidst the clouds



Serolsar Lake


Serolsar Lake
While returning back I wondered that any new trek creates an excitement, anxiousness and curiosity in beginning. But the same trek while coming back creates totally different feelings- feeling of tiredness and a feeling of 'known' which makes it little boring. Probably all known people and known things become boring after sometime and that's why we humans keeps running after 'change'.

JIBHI WATERFALL

The regular showers became too boring for me and Jibhi Waterfall became my daily shower on this trip. My day used to start and end with Jibhi Waterfall. 




In the end I could realise, "That this is my journey and I have to fight it, enjoy it and complete it on my own."

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

FRIENDLY CAFES OF RISHIKESH (CV)

8th June -10th June 2017

"Revolutions have always started in Cafes", said by Martin Firrel.

This was my fourth visit to Rishikesh and I chose Zostel as my home and 'exploring cafes of Rishikesh' as my business. Every cafe here has its own vibes, its own colours and culture. The best part about the cafes here is that they do not bring bills to the table (and that is with every cafe I had visited) and one could sit for hours watching the flowing Ganga and the green mountains with no one to disturb.

Cafe 60's (Cafe Delmar/Beatles Cafe)

1. 60's BEATLES CAFE

With a view of Ganga, peaceful ambience and Beatles music in the background, Cafe 60's is the perfect place for the people who love silence and the food. With delicious food and amazing Masala Chai, Cafe 60's became my favourite cafe. 

View from Cafe 60's








2. ZOSTEL ROOFTOP CAFE

Zostel in itself is a 'must visit' place in Rishikesh. A perfect place to stay for a backpacker, Zostel provides all amenities with chance to interact with different travellers from different countries. My love of graffiti increased after visiting this place. Even if one is not staying in Zostel, one could visit its beautiful rooftop cafe in evening to have its amazing Dal Fry with hot chappatis

Graffiti on one of Zostel's walls


Zostel Cafe at dusk


3. CAFE MOKTAN

We went to have early morning breakfast in Cafe Moktan. Well, I would call it a brick cafe. The interiors of cafe was made of appealing raw bricks with one corner of the cafe covered with books. We had delightful cheese omelette and garlic breads with sumptuous fresh fruit juices.  

The Brickhouse
4. CAFE DE-GOA

"All our waiters are married. They know how to take orders." With a view of Laxman Jhula, Cafe De-Goa is a place to sit where one could observe people walking on Laxman Jhula and wishing and hoping to go on the other side of the river. While we were looking for another cafe to munch-on it started raining in Rishikesh and we found shelter in Cafe De-Goa. The green tea and hot ginger lemon tea were enough to satisfy our taste buds.

Graffiti in front of Cafe De Goa


Graffiti near the cafe



View of Laxman Jhula from the Cafe


Cafe De Goa

5. CAFE LITTLE BUDDHA


Cross Laxman Jhula and walk for few minutes towards right and  one would come across a hidden gem- Cafe Little Buddha. I started climbing the dungeon stairs of the cafe and wondered where I was heading to. To my surprise the dungeon stairs opened upto a beautiful cafe full of people of different colours with amazing Ganga view. We named it the Happy Buddha Cafe.


 
6. CAFE CHATSANG


Very near to Little Buddha Cafe on the road side was Cafe Chatsang. The name of the cafe lured me (from Satsang came the Chatsang) and I couldn't control myself entering the cafe. Grabbing just a cup of tea with my book in my hand I spent some silent time here.




"Sore Today, Strong Tomorrow"- Wall of Cafe Chatsang
 7. GANGA VIEW RESTAURANT

We had heard a lot about Cafe Moksha and in efforts of finding it we ended up landing at Ganga View Restaurant. Cafe Moksha, as was told, is the most happening cafe of Rishikesh with live music in evenings. As we had our bus back to Delhi in evening we visited the cafe from outside and decided to spend some more time with view of Ganga at the Ganga View Restaurant.

The Cafe hopping in Rishikesh gave many beautiful moments to me- the rains, the rising moon, the setting sun, the Ganga water with rafts and bloats floating, the bridge with loads of people walking peacefully over it, the cool breeze and yes the amazing sumptuous delicious food.

Exploring galis of Rishikesh

The Rising Full Moon


Tuesday, April 11, 2017

A MARRIAGE TO GET INSPIRED FROM - A MARRIAGE IN MUKTESHWAR, UTTRAKHAND (CIV)

They met 8 years back and fell in love. Love, that beautiful feeling of being understood, being always together in all ups and downs. They were travellers, the mountain lovers and they chose Mukteshwar to tie that sacred knot. The knot- the promise to take care of each other, the promise to travel whole world together.


PRISTINE MUKTESHWAR
They are Anki and Prat, my favourites. Anki is my friend and my soulmate in office and Prat (now) her husband. Anki is crazy like me as being in Delhi she was getting married in hills and that's why I love her so much. 

An affair which couldn't be completed without 100s of people attending it, an affair which calls of so much show off that people die thinking that "what other people would think about them", an affair which is usually torturous and painful (at least for me and probably for Anki and Prat also), an affair which is usually called "Marriage" in our society. Well, marriage is not all this. Marriage is two people coming together, marriage is event of those two people, marriage is for happiness of those two people and marriage should be for those two people.

I was sitting in my office and a courier came. It was a card which stated "Dear person who is really important to us...Let's go to Mukteshwar, come for a trip, stay for a wedding." I jumped off my seat after reading the card.

A group of 15 people started their journey from Delhi in Shatabdi till Kathkodam and from there in mini bus and cars till Mukteshwar. Parents, siblings and friends (whom Anki and Prat call close people) were invited. People with whom there was no formality, people who understand them, people with whom they could enjoy their special day with. It was a marriage full of laughter, talks, fun, dance and excitement.











Finally the time arrived and we went to wedding mandap. I was in awe when I saw the mandap. Mandap was beautifully decorated by the village women with rice flour. For them Anki was like their daughter. The village people played music and danced in the barat.



LADKEWALE :D

Anki was looking as beautiful as always and Prat the handsome hunk. It was a marriage which solemnised in midst of mountains. While leaving the place I couldn't control my tears. The village people performed vidai ceremony of Anki in their traditional way with golden colour Kalash (Urn) and baded her goodbye like their sister.


Our tastes match so much
   
















Beautiful Bride and Groom
It was the marriage which is unforgettable, a spectacular, awe-inspiring marriage.

Saturday, March 25, 2017

IN SEARCH OF SOMETHING UNKNOWN - TRIP TO SARAHAN, HIMACHAL (CIII)

10th March- 14th March, 2017

INDIA- a book gifted by a fellow traveller, is an ocean in itself. I opened its chapter on Himachal and the first heading I saw was Sarahan. Secluded Sarahan- erstwhile summer capital of Bhushar rajas is some 170 kms ahead of Shimla. I couldn't resist myself after reading about it and two days later I was on a bus to Sarahan.


HOW TO REACH?

Delhi to Shimla night bus (10-11 hours)
Shimla to Rampur bus (4-5 hours)
Rampur to Sarahan bus (2-3 hours) 

There are direct buses also from Delhi to Rampur which I got to know later on my return journey.

START OF THE SEARCH

I didn't know what I was looking for or what I wanted. I was just taking this journey, probably in search of "Nothing".  

The bus crossed Shimla and my eyes became wide open in amazement. I had never seen Shimla like this before - It was white, pure white. The trees were covered in snow and the sunlight was falling on them, the water dropped from my eyelids like that melting snow falling from the leaves. It was start of a good journey.

The bus had to take another route to reach Rampur as route from Narkanda was closed because of heavy snowfall. Narkanda, every time I hear this name I go back in my memories - my first solo trip was till Narkanda. The trip which has given me strength to fight my fears, the capacity to know me well, the trip which has given me new perception of looking at life. (Story on Narkanda)

It was raining cats and dogs in Rampur. The Hotel Satluj view came as a rescue- cosy room, with all amenities and a beautiful view of Satluj River.  

Rampur is a small town in Himachal with River Satluj flowing through it. The sound of river, the vibration of the bridge, prayer flags emitting good vibes - everything was positive about that town. The rain droplets were kissing all my body and the mountains merged in me making me feel alive. At night looking out of my room window I cried, I cried a lot hugging those mountains, no ifs and buts were asked, no questions were thrown, it just let me cry and the river soaked in all my tears. 

Places to Visit in Rampur

1. Padam Palace
2. Rampur bridge over Satluj River
3. Small beautiful market after crossing the bridge
4. Peaceful mountains and river water

SARAHAN

The journey from Rampur to Sarahan is beautiful. I saw snow covered mountains from Rampur and I wished to reach there and after reaching Sarahan I realised I was on those mountains. 

Sarahan is famous for Bhimkali temple - a temple with beautiful wooden architecture and I was lucky to have its tasty langar food. Snow covered mountains surrounded the temple making it even more pious. 

The road ends at Sarahan and I was glad to touch the last point.  

END OF SEARCH

As I said, I didn't know what I was looking for but I was sure that I was not going empty handed from this place. Leaving this place was not easy for me. I didn't get enough of this place. Any number of days or how much time I spend there were less. I felt as if I was leaving something really important behind. I had no relationship or connection with it but still when I bade goodbye something in me was sad. The conversations I had with nature I could never share those thoughts with anyone else- my fears, my views, my thoughts which are unacceptable to this world. It had lent such a good hear to all my talks. If I had an option I would have chosen this place as my home, but unfortunately I had no choice. All this while I was leaving love stating it to be impractical, but for the first time love was leaving me as the same was not possible.  I wish I get only one reason to hate it so that I never come back here again. However, I took a promise- not to forget me ever and keep me as one good chapter of life.  On the way back to Delhi I said "I will miss you" and the setting sun shone even brighter as if it held my hand in that moment. Only two things could bring tears in my eyes- love and nature and I got both on this trip. 

For pictures on Rampur and Sarahan visit my facebook page  https://www.facebook.com/thedayirealisedthatiamalive/





Wednesday, February 8, 2017

I WISH! (CII)

I wish when I die, 
I die in hills reading a book 
Or on a beach watching sunset

I wish when I die, 
I die in desert drowning in mirage
Or in sea watching star fish

I wish when I die, 
I die sitting on a cliff meditating 
Or under a waterfall playing

I wish when I die, I die while living. 


KASARDEVI, UTTRAKHAND, INDIA

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